Enlisting others into your course

If you are taking this course with your spouse, significant other, child, or even your best friend, then kudos to you. The course will be much easier when the people you have the most conflict with, learn the same lessons. If you are taking this course on your own, that is good as well because it only takes one person to disrupt the patterns that have been ingrained and make transformation happen. 

If you want someone to participate with you in this course, here are some pointers to have that happen.

• Be honest about your experience in the relationship- don’t sugar coat how you feel about how things have been going. Let them know that you are frustrated and want to do something before you get more frustrated.  
• Take responsibility for your part in the lack of communication- let them know that you don’t blame them for the lack of communication. You didn’t have the skills to communicate either. 
• Let them know you love them. Let this person know that you care about your communication with them and are committed to doing anything you can to help the process. 
• Set clear goals- Let them know what you want to accomplish by the end of the course and how you see things changing. We provided a PDF worksheet so that you can work on this ahead of time. So go ahead and download this and get to work on it right after this slide. 
• Allow them to see this introduction video. You could use both the sales video and the introduction video to show them what the course entails. 
• Allow them to make the decision and don’t force them to do it. - When people are allowed to say no to something, they are more likely to open their minds to it. If you force them to do it, they most likely will fight the process the entire way.